Advertisement on the side of a building in Borough, London
In
September 1971 Kenneth William Benson (“Ken”) is driven away from Heathrow
Airport by his brother Charles (and his girlfriend). As they took the exit onto
the motorway a large sign proclaimed,
“Take Courage”. Ken who had just flown in from Calcutta where the
temperature was a high 20C in comparison to London at the lower end of the
scale, thought Britain must be a truly terrible place, if such a sign was
necessary to stir the hearts of those arriving. Charles later informed Ken that
the sign was in fact an advert for Courage Bitter, something for which Ken
never developed a taste.
And so
my Dad arrived in Britain to begin his new life. The Benson brothers had
returned to “the old country” from where my great grandfathers had left for
work and adventure many years before. As the less academic of the two and the
elder brother, Charles been sent ahead of Ken with the intention that he would
obtain a City and Guilds in plumbing, and return to India to work with his
father. While studying, Charles had stopped with his uncle, James Ramage Blake
(“Jim”) and his wife in Stone, Staffordshire; here he had met Joyce Kent. In
the end neither brother returned to the land of their birth; instead both met
girls, got married and had families.
In writing
this book I have drawn on a wealth of information: home movies, photographs,
old documents, as well as stories and notes which my relatives, especially my
grandmother and aunts, gave to me when I was studying for my Masters in Asian
History at the SOAS. I have always intended to write this book, but
unfortunately there is no one around today who I can question further as I now
discover how the memories recorded in stories and notes, do not match up with
the reality in the documents available.
I had
especially hoped that Dad would be around to contribute, and to accompany me,
my brother, Mum and my sister in law to India in January 2017, to show us where
he had been born and studied, and where his family had lived and worked. I also
regret not being to share with him answers to some of the mysteries which
existed in the families and to correct some inaccuracies.
So, I have finally
got on with it, though I began writing not long after our return, it has sat in
Google Drive and now OneDrive waiting for the Covid pandemic to be over and for
me to finally declare it finished. I’d visited the country, read letters,
journals and other documents and I felt I finally had an understanding of my
ancestors, my family, and their story of love, adventure, and courage.
After some
investigation and chats with friends, and because it is a quick cut and paste
exercise, I decided to published my work as is on this blog with the hopes of
doing something else with it in the future.
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